The big question: How do we figure out financial aid?

The calculation seems simple—the cost of college, minus the family’s ability to pay, equals a student’s financial need. But the financial aid process can be anything but straightforward. Here’s how to decipher the Free Application for Student Aid (FAFSA) and other options.
Calculate the cost. To find the school’s tuition and estimated living expenses, put the school’s name into CNN Money’s calculator, or search “[school name] cost of attendance” or “[school name] net price calculator.” If you’re planning years ahead, use The New York Times’ calculator
Calculate your family’s ability to pay. In FAFSA terms, it’s called your Estimated Family Contribution
Submit the FAFSA. Complete the application at https://studentaid.gov/
Calculate the (real) cost of loans. Many students and parents don’t understand that when a school refers to “aid” or “awards” it often means loans—not scholarships. And it can be hard for a teen, who’s never had experience with a full-time salary or mortgage payments, to wrap their head around loans ranging from $5,000 to $100,000. That’s where the Repayment Estimator
Be cautious about parent loans. Cosigning, which makes you liable for the debt if your child fails to pay, is required for most private student loans. (In contrast, federal loans don’t require a cosigner, and offer other advantages over private loans—federal loans have typically lower rates that are fixed rather than variable, and offer a short grace period after graduation and forgiveness in some situations.) Also avoid taking on a Parent PLUS loan, which doesn’t qualify for the income-based repayment and forgiveness options that are granted to student borrowers. Your kids have plenty of ways to get help paying for school—but you can’t get a loan for retirement.
Reduce financial need. Seeing the impending cost of tuition and student loans may motivate students to find ways to lessen their financial need now. They could complete credits at a community college, choose a school that offers a better financial aid package, apply to several private scholarships each year, work part time while school is in session and full time during breaks, and of course, stick to a budget. The best student loan is the one you don’t need.
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